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Sometimes it seems that sent life spouse, eroding our ability to be natural Hacstadtit form of pure love. Many compromise succumb to lack of knowledge and fear of difficulties and failure.
What is the role of sexual relationships and how to maintain the passion and enthusiasm over the years?
According to tradition, Tantra, Tantric sex is the best tool I closed the marital and personal development, and therefore can not overstate the importance of the sexual relationship in a relationship.
If we try to define the difference between "friendship love" L"z cookies ", we reach the conclusion relationship includes sexual relationship. I mean, without the sex, any system will double friendship love, and that at best. Most of the time the cease having sex causes the crisis which leads eventually to discharge relationship.
Still, many couples find themselves going to reduce the frequency of their sexual encounters with the passing years. Sometimes, the sense of sexual boredom and lack of innovation is evident already after a few months. Many couples find that over time species become mechanical or technical.
Tantric sex has strengths that allow for spiritual development and emotional opening. Both man and woman. But it is important to note that there are essential differences between the sexes with regard to access to sex. Tantra deals among thousands of years girls insights about the differences if. Today, this ancient knowledge is shared.
Knowledge and understanding of the differences which enable many to address communication difficulties, sexual difficulties and conflicts between spouses.
As noted, one of the patients by the Tantra, is saving passion and love relationship for many years.
Interestingly, one of common causes to reduce sexual activity pairs, is the natural product of this activity: pregnancy and childbirth.
That is, apparently, also one of great challenges in maintaining the spark of passion;
Pregnancy itself can be a great time bringing together the couple often happens increases a woman's desire during the second trimester of pregnancy and especially - after the nausea, vomiting and fatigue were gone.
One reason is the special intimacy that is created between the couple during the months of pregnancy. Other reasons related to physiological and hormonal changes in women: increased supply of blood and genitals creates great sensitivity and a sense of heightened sexual desire. Also liberation from the need to prevent pregnancy allows the couple to enjoy the experience without the need for control.
The situation varies widely postpartum period. The couple find themselves busy over the head changing diapers, shaking the crib, chronic fatigue frequent cleaning, which allows time for romance and love, in addition, due to hormonal and physical changes mainly as a result of breastfeeding, decreases a woman's desire.
Man, by contrast, finds himself many times "out of the game". As he tries to connect emotionally to the new infant, he feels how his wife loved walking away, and in fact he feels useless, rejected and neglected.
The woman on the other hand, often feels emotionally full experience of motherhood and her need physical proximity is filled partly by the treatment and lactation. Add to that the chronic fatigue that accompanies the entire process, we can understand how pressing the need for a kind of low priority for her.
Handling the woman's baby care needs constant preoccupation with his feelings, does not leave much time to observe her inner desires, emotions and natural sensuality. You could say that the New Shay sensual "woman turns a part of The New Gift of fear". The part of practical activity is manifested daily survival.
In this situation, the woman tends to forget and ignore the basic need sensuality and pleasure of life - leaving her in a state of constant tension and dissatisfaction fixed.
Women tend to ignore the need of male intimacy in this period, assuming Motat will of man is only a kind of voluntary physical pleasure, due to an incorrect understanding this, they expect a man to "sacrifice" their needs for now.
For man, sexual encounter with his lover, allows him to reconnect with inner feelings, and so feel more loyalty belong to his role in the family, both father and son pair.
In general, both couples and abroad. Men tend to "forget" their emotions and focus on doing thoughts, plans Umtlotiomiomiot. For them, sexual encounter with a woman is one of the only ways to reconnect with their feelings secret. In other words, we can say that the man felt his love and heart are opened during sexual intercourse.
Unlike women, who can feel their love by sharing feelings, men can feel love through healthy sexuality and loving. It was not available, the men find themselves away emotionally, despite all their good Ohthsbotm sailing, they will begin to wonder among themselves where the love was gone. In this situation, rejected and frustrated to see any small defect fraction destructive relationship.
When we look at the situation in this perspective, it seems that we are in a vicious circle:
The woman, in addition to any The "Ruth" hormonal, cause of such decline in desire, head over busy handling the baby, a fact that left her a long time to herself, and therefore does not allow her to feel her body and her sensuality.
The man, who feels rejected and not loved, can not find a way to connect loving feelings, those feelings that enable him to strengthen the relationship and commitment to link a family unit.
Woman, she felt instinctively that the man's emotional vibrations, feels "alone", and increases the practical mechanism - survival of her life at the expense of the sensual - sexual. Again, a decrease in passion.
How to break this circle?
In this situation, no magic solutions. Both partners must give their opinion on the subject. Preferably one hour before. I mean, you should discuss the issue already during pregnancy, and be aware of the consequences of birth sex life. Understanding and proper preparation, both the man and the woman's difficulties, will enable them to cope with greater success, mutual communication and support of joint partnership.
After the recovery period from the birth, you should start having sex regularly. While paying attention to physiological changes in the woman's body, (by the way, women worried expansion of the vagina due to childbirth, can train and strengthen the muscles in the region and collapse back to the vagina. And by the daily practice of Hfovicoksigaos muscles - those muscles that allow men Tntriim stop ejaculation, this practice, very helpful to strengthen the system of the female sex could prevent situations of prolapsed uterus following birth) [See an article about practicing Tantra for men]
If the woman feels a lack of desire to extreme, can be considered a break or reduction in frequency of breastfeeding, (breast-feeding also has effects on infant development, parental discretion).
It is important that both partners understand the importance of stability in the act of love and intimacy between marital relationship.
The woman to remember the unique role in the relationship: to allow flow in context - an energetic, sexually and physically, it is also the largest gift to her man: load the energy man, when he lost in thoughts, work, action plans.
Sensuality with sexuality, she allows him to return his body. To the present.
The role of the man, he "get" emotionally to the woman to open her love. To deepen the love, the man for that act in a supportive and attentive at the same time give her the gift of male: provide proper guidance and stability she needs them.
Among others, can man be considerate and understanding. Take on a more regular daily tasks, both in treatment and treatment of children, which will enable a woman to feel supported and loved and leave time to deal with her own femininity.
When the woman feels "there is someone to rely on", when she felt she could relax once the need to treat others. She relaxes, allowing the sensual side - Mini open.
Dissatisfaction and tension turns a feeling and longing to be loved sexually.
Initially, it seems that is not aware if any dormant feelings, but as a feeling growing, increasing awareness feminine side, and you need to fulfill that desire.
When a woman gives her partner the sexual energy, she allows him to feel his love and commitment to her. Again does not feel rejected. Gift strengthens the masculine side and self-confidence allows him to continue to be there for her.
Finally, an important tip:
To make a state of detachment and passion into a love relationship and sensuality, it is necessary cooperation of both sides, or in other words - communication. Joint makes it easier for each party to perform his duties more easily. Tantra workshop the couple together could be the beginning of a new way of bridging the distance and strengthening marriage sexual relationship.
Do not wait Saturday Zogtc opens you sexually, give it your gift for free.
And you, Give your love to your man sexuality, without preconditions.
Tantric sex allows you to preserve your relationship fresh and full of passion, and personal development, control animals experience love.